Choices Podcast

The Magic Formula: Why Community is Your Greatest Act of Self-Care Welcome back to the Choices Podcast! We often come together to talk about the choices that shape our lives, and in doing so, we’ve realized a profound truth: this podcast is growing into a massive group therapy session on steroids. It’s a space where we are constantly learning by teaching, a dynamic process of growth and self-discovery. As one of us (Carcass) noted, “The best way to learn is to teach.” And that is exactly what this journey—and life itself—is all about. What U2 Taught Us About Connection We started this week’s discussion by reflecting on a powerful lyric from U2’s “One”: “We are one, but we’re not the same. We get to carry …

Don’t Just Change the World — Change Your Own: A Guide to Self-Betterment Welcome back to the Choices Podcast! In a world obsessed with global problems and political gridlock, it’s easy to feel powerless. We watch the drama unfold in Washington, D.C., and feel that familiar frustration of knowing things could be better, if only people would reach across the aisle and shake hands. As Carcass wisely noted, many talk about changing the world, but few talk about changing themselves. Here at Choices, we believe that the only change you can truly control, and the only change that matters most to your daily life, is the one you initiate within. It’s time for some “scatter shooting” on the crucial practice of learning to better yourself. …

From the Sidelines to the Soul: Montana Murphy on the Journey of True Grit The final moments of the conversation with Montana Murphy on Choices podcast solidify his commitment to a new path. After sharing the harrowing details of his near-fatal 42-foot fall—a stark reminder of the reckless abandon of his former life—Murphy and the hosts discuss the deliberate effort required to build a meaningful, sober life. It’s a compelling message about choosing the “hard way” when you know it’s the right way. Murphy, over 755 days sober, embodies the principle of taking life one step at a time, or as the hosts put it, going “first, second, third, and then home.” His newfound passion is clear: becoming a “very good spokesperson” for young people …

Am I On the Road to Greatness? Stop Waiting for Perfection and Start Driving The journey to an extraordinary life often feels daunting—a quest reserved only for the flawless and the lucky. But as discussed on the Choices Podcast, the road to greatness isn’t paved with perfection; it’s built on constant motion, practical effort, and the courage to start where you are. The question isn’t if you will achieve greatness, but whether you are willing to get off the sidelines and get on the right road. The Power of Imperfect Action One of the most powerful revelations on the path to success is the realization that progress beats perfection. Many people freeze up, paralyzed by the fear that their plan is flawed or their skills …

Trading Jet Fuel for Nuclear Power: Lessons from a Weekend of Discovery Welcome back to the Choices Podcast official blog! This week, we’re diving deep into the powerful conversation Brett and Carcass John had with their guest, Addison Lancaster, right after he completed a major personal development program. The core of their discussion centered on making deliberate choices—not just in career or relationships, but in how we approach our own internal life. Addison’s journey highlights a universal truth: we all carry emotional weight, often without realizing the toll it takes. He described his previous state as “burning rocket fuel”—hot, fast, and unsustainable—and his new state as running on “nuclear power”—cleaner, centered, and more peaceful. This reframe from high-stress drive to composed, powerful presence is an …